[In unplanned and fairly comical synchronicity, they both raised their cups and took a drink.

They were dead men.]

Timeless! Perfect. That... was the only easy question.

[Now for the real work.]

What is she seeking and what are her preferences? Not a husband. Honest...? People? Valorous individuals... who can take a punch? And 'not assholes'? [Was 'not assholes' a preference? Sure. Sure, it was.]